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2011-02-08 4-35-12-

while i agree with you... i beleive that my question encumpasses a little more than just labelling acts.
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2011-02-10 13-28-51

is it realy you? in the pic? do you enjoy facials or were you just being kind to your lover. I am into cum play I guess you would say. is that A kink?
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    2011-02-12 16-23-02

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    corea

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    2011-02-13 4-54-34-

    aww, not ALL labels! What if we wanted to label you "cute" or "sweet" are we still losers?
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    hyacinthe

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    2011-02-24 2-57-00-

    thank you! the PC things gets out of control sometimes ;)! and as much as lables can be negative and stiffling to some, they can be helpful and empowering to tohers.
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    2011-06-29 5-29-08-

    well, a loser I am then... cuz I think you gals all are sweet and yummy, and I think that pic is hot... all labels, so a loser I am, and proud of it!
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  • metter

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    2011-06-30 15-29-41

    Great questions! For me, BDSM seems to have a "physical" connotation to it. Like physical spankings and discipline and whatnot. And for me, KINK seems to have a more mental connotation, like humiliation, mind-fuckings, teasing, etc. I think KINK could also be a solo thing, where BDSM mostly requires a partner, someone to inflict things. But that is just me, and there is probably a lot of overlap between the two, and they are probably the best match since peanut butter and jelly. I'd love to get spanked, bonded, and worked over psychiy (and to dish it out too), but my main thing is the mental fucks, and so, in my weak little mind, I consider myself a kinkster first and foremost. That definitions seems to fit better for me I think.
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    yezi

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    2011-08-04 17-44-23

    hmm that's interesting. for me, my BDSM relationships are all about the mind first, and then physical actions to carry out what the mind has already been stimulated with. if my headspace isn't right, then nothing else is, either.
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  • dory

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    2011-08-13 22-57-44

    I see the BDSM relationship as a give and take, it does involve a more physical aspect, but I dont see it as a truely Physical reletionship... some people NEVER have sex with their Masters.. Kink to me is what you like OUTSIDE of what society says is normal intercourse. I think that BDSM and kink both have some incorporations of EACH other in them. I m just sayin'
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    2011-11-12 7-38-56-

    great question We seem to deal with "what is kinky" just about every day. As a BDSMer, I tend to equate the two. It's just natural for me to do so. But I do think it's possible to be kinky without necessarily being into BDSM. Foot fetishists and fruit fanatics may or may not include BDSM aspects into their play but it's still a kink IMO. I won't comment on 'kinkier' though as I firmly believe that we should not promote such comparisons. It only leads to personal comparisons and fights. I will say though, that acts that are widely regarded as acceptable between regular sex partners would not be considered kink. These (to me anyway) include anal sex, oral sex and basic toys. My x¢
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  • coble

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    2011-12-30 23-07-35

    I don't like the term either... but we can't deny that there are level of extremity in individuals. SO as an example, a couple into group water sports, couple swapping and age play without a D/s component in my view could be "kinkier" or "more extreme" than a couple into D/s that includes only light bondage, mild spankings and a little D/s dirty talk. I don't like comparing individulas as to levels of "kinkiness" but i have no problem labelling acts, and such lables are subjective to us all.
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    2012-02-25 7-01-04-

    true enough People do have the opportunity to try out kinks as they go and for them some activities may be 'kinkier' than others. But I think that the way those activities are ranked would be up to the people engaged in them. Couple "A" might think that stuffing a pinepple up her ass is terribly kinky as compared to a table flogging. While couple "B" thinks the pineapple in the ass to be mild foreplay. All the activities can be ranked, but the ranking will vary considerably among individuals.
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    2012-04-15 17-16-19

    I don't see much of 'solo kink' to be very extreme as there's little risk involved. Panty sniffing and autoeroticism generally doesn't strike me as anything more than variations of simple masturbation. For me, the more extreme forma of kink require at leastpeople,(or more) of who exercizes an extreme form of control over the other (we're getting deep into D/s here), requiring a great deal of trust between the partners. I get off on the trust. Knowing that she feels so close to me that she will quite literally trust her life to me is a huge rush. It's a huge responsibility, but I like the planning and focusing on task when scening. The difficulty is in finding the right partner and then maintaining that relationship.
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  • buesing

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    2012-05-10 18-45-47

    YAY! A kink thread! *jumps for joy* :) What do you consider kinky outside of the bdsm realm? There are many things I consider kink that aren't BDSM. Anal, fisting, rimming, throat fucking, swinging..... Do any of you consider yourselves kinsters (or know any) that aren’t into to any of the bdsm elements? I am not really into BDSM except maybe a little D/s play and some rope on occasion but very mild in comparison to some What acts/dynamics do they/you engage in that you consider to be kinky? all of the above :) Can a non bdsm kinkster potentially be kinkier (I don’t like using that term) or more extreme than bdsm participants, if so, how? I think the potential is there but no I think the BDSM lifestyle is the most extreme because it is about the "mindfuck" in so many ways.
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    Alexi

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    I cant think of any people I know that dont draw some of all of those aspects into their play... even if it s just simple dirty talk or light spanking... I THINK that kink and BDSM are like peanut butter and jelly... meant to be together !!! lol
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  • mensch

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    2012-09-01 1-38-55-

    I consider things like foot fetishes, watersports, mental humiliation, stuff like that, to be "kinky" but not BDSM. I don't have any particular fetishes myself, though; nor do I label myself as kinky, actually. (Please don't revoke my day pass for this forum!) Can a kink be more extreme than a BDSM act? Oh, sure. In fact, I think of fetishes as more extreme in general, because they're more like needs than desires or proclivities. So to me, needing to kiss someone's feet in order to orgasm is more extreme than liking to tie someone up and spank them.
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    2013-01-30 22-57-20

    I guess i consider foot worship and feet fetishes in general to have a built in D/s dynamic. The foot lover almost always enjoys being subordinate to the foot owner. But yeah i suppose some couples are mutually into feet oris without feeling in the slightest submissive. interesting, thanks.
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  • Jen

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    2013-03-10 15-16-34

    the DS in BDSM also stands for Dominant/submissive. And often (not always at all) Sadist is synonomous with Dominant, and Masochist with submissive.
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  • valadez

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    2013-03-20 12-31-00

    Ah. Well, if the labels are able to mean lots of things, so that they're kind of all-encompassing, then they're going to encompass a lot more, of course. I still think there are people turned on by (to the fetish extent, I mean) feet, shoes, Asians, red hair, deep voices, etc., that aren't necessarily into a dominant/submissive dynamic.
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    completely agree i have lots of things that specifiy turn me on that I would consider kinky but I would definitely not consider BDSM. of course, these aren't things that are necessary to my sexual fulfillment, so maybe they're just proclivities and not kinks, i'm not sure where that line falls.
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  • Cookie

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    I have a hard time with the definition that a fetish is something YOU MUST HAVE in order for sexual satisfaction. You could be totally obsessed and in love with pantyhose (my fave) but if you were having a quickie in the back seat of the car with your SO and she happened not to have pantyhose at that moment. You couldn't cum? I think the definition is to firm.
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    Um... but that IS the definition of a fetish. It doesn't mean that you need to have it every single time, no. But it is strongly felt as a need, yes. I don't think your affection for pantyhose is at fetish level. But a foot fetish person who needs to see feet in order to cum... that's different. And yes, he could still cum sometimes without foot play. But it's on his mind all the time, and he couldn't give it up.
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